Apparently the universe needs to keep reminding me of these things! Maybe if I write them down, I’ll be less surprised when it happens again?
- There’s a period of shock, but FYI…
- It’s only temporary.
- Your life will feel like it’s been turned upside down, but again…
- It’s only temporary.
- You might think you’ve made a mistake (or two or three or four) and you’ll also wonder if you did the right thing.
- It might take a while, but you’ll find a way to adjust, and everyone around you will find a way to adjust, too.
- You might not know all the answers right now, but you’ll figure it all out.
- Take it easy on yourself. Give yourself copious amounts of grace.
- It’s ok to mourn your previous life.
- One more time for the cheap seats in the back! You’re never going to feel completely ready, ever.
- Try to cover as many of the life basics as possible to keep you from losing your sh*t. For me, it’s getting enough sleep, eating and drinking things that make me feel good, making my bed and moving my body.
- Let other people know you need help.
- Let other people help you.
- You’ll find a new rhythm. It might take some time, but you’ll get there.
Your friendly neighborhood beauty addict,
Karen
Karen,
Love this post❤️. For mothers (of children and/or fur-babies)…this list is essential. Between work, the dogs, and the kids…I am always needing to remind myself to take a deep breath. I usually describe my life as “beautiful chaos” 🤪. I love it all…but sometimes it is overwhelming. I have anxiety and I am really hard on myself. With the kids and dogs, my brain really gets pushed to its limit sometimes. And so many feelings. A constant roller coaster of emotions. And every big (and sometimes small) decision could benefit from your list.
Thank you, Mandy. You’re so right; it’s indeed beautiful chaos!
I so understand. We just added a 10 months old rescue Lab that had some special medical needs added to a house with a senior Lab on medication for terminal cancer (they immediately bonded at that first meet and greet). Tending to them both on top of a family is a lot of work, especially as my husband is gone for his job 2-3 weeks a month and I telework full time. But no regrets, she’s teaching us patience, love, and what teamwork is all about in a family (my husband even built an escalator up the steep stairs to our bungalow to assist them in getting in and out as stairs are problematic). I keep telling myself she’ll calm down in another 3-4 months (my husband probably said that about me when we got married 🙂
Oh Brigid! Your dogs sound like such loves. Thank you for taking care of them.
Very well said. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for reading, CC. Hope you’re having a great week so far!
You’ve got this! Sending you any additional grit and grace that might help!
I will take all the grit and grace you can send, Kathleen!
Sending!!
Wise words!